Saturday, December 13, 2008

~ love sucks? ~


Fewh! I'm back, at last, haha! As always the reason for my lateness of posting is LAZY! Haha, so today i'm 'merajinkan' myself to post. I've been busy these past few days actually with things, important stuff and cleaning, cooking(helping actually, hehe), cleaning again and wasting some times(i love it!).

Well, today i want to talk about love. I'd read my friend's blog and she talked about love, so I want to talk of what I thought about love. Why must there's a love, if it will only make other people's life miserable? And again I thought, if there is no love, what will happen to the world?

Sometimes I question myself, why must people fell in love? How is it feel to be loved by someone else(i mean other than your family and friends)? Some of you might say that I am yet to know the feeling since I am not in love( er, creepy!) Maybe.
Well, some people fell in love at a young age, talking about their future together, planning ahead(that's not wrong!) but, it seem that they are ready to take up the responsibility for each other. Maybe.

I've seen around me people confessing their undying love, their devotion to each other and later separate. When ask for the reasons, ' we're not suitable with each other ' well, why now after so much time wasted? It is not only time but money, energy and tears(when you both quarell).


When you are together in love, you are no longer free to do what you desire. Come on, look around you! There are so much things to do, to explore, to experience. Lots of people you want to mix with, make friends with. When you are with your special someone, you have to tell he/she where you want to go, who is your friends are, what are you doing or he/she might get jealous. Lucky for you if that person dont mind of what you did, but how about you?

Some of you might disagree with what I said here but this is what i felt. You are free to critic me or maybe agree with me. I'm open for that.
I agree with what my friend said, falling in love is about you're taking a risk. Well, are you courageous enough to take it? Ask yourself.


For those who have the significant others, i'm not stopping you to love neither encouraging you. It is up to you to think of your life, your future. You are the one who knows best about your life.

I'm just an ordinary friend who want the best for her friends. I care about all my friends, when you're hurt i felt it too. Whenever you're happy, that's enough for me, eventhough you dont remember me. As yana said, spread the love to everyone(when i said everyone, i mean it! hehe). Love make a lot of difference in the world, it is up to you on how it will be.

ai-na : i'm feeling the love..from my family! hehe, love you all!